Hospitaleros in Pieros

One of the joys (and sadnesses) of the Camino are the people you meet. You say goodbye every day, and usually at least one is someone you have touched or who touched you. Your fellow hospitaleros become your anchor, and then you say goodbye to them too.

But goodbyes are not forever. Here are people I hope to see again.

Ulises, Mercedes (Que bien se come en esta casa,) me, Mar, Martin
Ronin, me, Mar, Katka
Soren, me, Mar

Not pictured are Natalia and Gonzalo. One might think that people who do such unskilled labor have no other choice. One would be wrong.

Natalia was a doctor, who actually went to the village every day and read x-rays online.

Gonzalo had a PHD in Civil Engineering.

Ulises had just sold a successful empanada business.

Mercedes was a retired flight attendant.

I’m not sure what Martin did, but he was our handyman and pretty good at it.

Ronan had dreams of accumulating enough passive income to travel for the rest of his life. He not only had the dream, he had a plan.

Katka left to pursue a master degree; I forget in what.

I’m not sure about any studies for Soren, but he had run carriage rides in Vienna, lived with monks in Greece, had family in the wine business, and gifted his bar to his brother shortly before going on camino. He is one who walked to Santiago and was walking back. He spent a lot of time trying to get his tambour, which I think he played at a professional level, delivered so he could practice.

Mar was a former musician; she played the zamfrano (or something like that) and the tambourine. And she had enough money twelve years ago to convert an old winery into an albergue.

And I, of course, trained as an opera singer and have two master degrees.

Were you surprised by any of that? Don’t be. Everyone has a story. Everyone has a special gift. Everyone has a special pain. I’m back in the states now and might not be posting as much. Please remember that until we see each other again, and when you meet someone new, ask yourself , “ What is their story?” They have one. I promise.

Miha, short for Mihablador. Not all hospitaleros are human.

Perceptions in Pieros

Two nights ago I registered some pilgrims who just gave me a bad vibe. I knew they were going to be hard to please. They wanted us to have a dryer (it’s been raining for days) and weren’t happy when we didn’t. When I said, “No, we don’t take cards. I’m sorry,” one said, “Just tell me you don’t take cards; no need to be sorry.” Um…okay.

They hadn’t been here an hour when the same one came upstairs and said, “ We’re leaving. This place is not an acceptable level of clean, and we’d like our money back.” Um…okay.

So I went downstairs and Martin had cleaned the vegetables but not cooked them, so I gave them a full refund and they left.

Last night a pilgrim said, “ What I like best about this place is it’s so clean.” Soren and I just looked at each other and laughed. Then we had to explain.

Last night was my final night here. Today I bus to Madrid.

A Gift in Pieros

Rodrigo is a pilgrim who worked as a hospitalero for Mar years ago. He came through, and his knee was bothering him. So he decided to stay a few days and give me some time off.

The first day I came to town and did this.

Lacón con pimientos (ham with peppers)
Muslos de pollo con patatas y ensalada (chicken thighs with potatoes and salad)
Tarta de queso (which is still not cheesecake. I swear, I’m going to bring the right pan and show these Spaniards what cheesecake is.)

I didn’t check in any pilgrims or clean a damn thing. Yesterday the same thing. Today I did a little before I left and I’ll do more tonight after dinner. It has been so wonderful. Even though my shoulders still tingle, they have relaxed enough I can feel the knots. Before they were too stiff.

It Had to Happen Sometime

Tonight I had my first drunk pilgrim. She bought a liter of wine from us and brought two of her own. And then asked me to buy more.

More later. It’s 4 am and the cats decided to fight.

So I know this person is trouble from the beginning. She arrives around 11. We open at 3. I am outside, and within five minutes I learn that on November 11, Putin is going to start WWIII, but it is okay because believers are going to be raptured right before then.

So she writes down her name and then I send her to the bar. I tell Mar, “ The good news is we have a pilgrim. The bad news is he’s crazy.” ( I thought she was a man. Even though the name she wrote down was “Donna.” I cannot tell you how masculine this woman looked and sounded.)

I don’t register her or take her money because I am hoping she’ll change her mind. No. She comes back, and other than telling me she usually stays in hotels it seems like things will be okay.

Mar sells her a bottle of wine, which we sometimes do. She doesn’t know, nor does anyone else, that the woman has two more of her own, which she brings out at dinner.

After the couscous is finished (I had to do my usual “Okay, there’s one bite left; someone take it,” and it wasn’t her) she says she is still hungry. I can’t offer her bread; she doesn’t eat bread. Bread destroys the pineal gland, and no bread is the reason her mother is 87 and her father 91. She is 65, and looks every day of it.

So Martin heats leftover squash patties and some seitan (vegetarian ham) with peppers Mar and I had for lunch. She won’t eat a bite of it. The other pilgrims are waiting for their dessert till she finishes and all she does is flap her jaws and not eat.

Finally a pilgrim who had bought only dessert comes in and I serve. She doesn’t eat sweets. I offer fruit. She doesn’t eat fruit. She finally thanks me for my effort and says she had expected vegetables. I offer to make her a salad. No.

She goes outside. Another pilgrim tells me she drank two liters of wine at dinner (I was there but thought she was sharing those bottles) and a liter before. She is drunk off her butt. So I send Mar a message as a heads up.

Fortunately a lovely German man she gravitated to spends the evening talking to her. I thank him. I had to pray my way through the day, reminding myself she was a child of God, that he loved her, that she deserved kindness, all those things.

Before I go for my walk, she asks me to sit with them, and asks for more wine. I tell her no. It is time for sleeping, not drinking wine. She tells me this is Europe, not Texas, and I need to adjust. I still say no, and fortunately she backs off.

I just went downstairs to get a package, and I think her things are on the drying line. Not dry, because it rained last night. She might still be here. Damn. I’ll update you guys later.

Her bicycle is gone, which means she is gone. Praise and glory be!

Magic in Pieros

It is impossible for me to upload pictures and videos from my computer, so I usually create a draft post on my phone where I upload the images then go to my computer and create the text. For some reason, the post I created on my phone will not show up. If I can get it to I will post the pictures and video. But I had one of those nights that was absolute magic.

It started after dinner with a Japanese man getting out origami paper and teaching us how to make paper cranes. He said they are the symbol of peace, and that he wishes us peace. Then some professional musicians got out a ukulele (belonging to one of them) and guitar (belonging to Mar) and we sang and played under the stars.

The last song was one Gloria, a pilgrim, had written. She was traveling with a large group and when they heard the music they came running to sing along. The guitar player switched to a cajon (wooden box drum) Mar has and drummed while she strummed and sang, “Buen camino, peregrino, hasta a Santiago. Caminando y llorando. Caminando y reirando. Buen camino, peregrino.” In English, “Good journey, pilgrim to Santiago. Walking and crying. Walking and laughing. Good journey, pilgrim.” The most beautiful energy flowed from her and through all of us and I thought, “Yes. This. This is what I want. This makes all the cleaning worth it.”

Choosing our paper
Ready to fold
First few folds
Concentrating hard
More folds
Thank God, I’m standing next to the instructor; I suck at this
I’m not the only one
Almost there
We did it!
A flock of peace
My contribution
“Peregrino Song,” written and composed by the performer

Cleaning Up After Eighteen Pilgrims in Pieros

So you guys get an idea of the albergue and why I’m not writing.

Meditation room where I sleep
Breakfast dishes for 10. This doesn’t include putting away supper dishes for 15.
First pilgrim room. Brush beds and move every single one so I can sweep and mop the corners.
Second pilgrim room. Same deal.
Men’s bathroom
Women’s bathroom
Second dining room
First dining room
Stairs to meditation room

This plus cooking lunch, serving dinner, washing dinner dishes, and setting out breakfast.

Un Poquito Loco in Pieros

I know I haven’t written much lately, but it’s hard to find time when you work twelve and thirteen hour days seven days a week. This is a great life, but it is pretty unrelenting. I told Mar I was going to take Monday as a “me” day. I was going to take the bus to Ponferrada and do some shopping there for things I cannot get in Cacabelos. “Was” is the operative word here.

The only reason I was going to be able to do all of this was because George would be here, so I have been anxiously waiting for him to arrive. Well, George arrived. He found out he would be sleeping with pilgrims for a few days so he left. Mar tried to offer him La Casita, but there isn’t a bed there, just a couch. Other hospitaleros have slept there, but not George. She offered him Martin’s caravan; Martin was willing to sleep in La Casita. Nope. He left. There went my “me day.”

Two of the albergues in Cacabelos closed on the 22nd, so we are getting the overflow. We had eighteen pilgrims tonight. Eighteen! We’ve been running nine on a good day. We had already prepared four extra beds, but we very quickly got four more ready. One man, Gunther, paid for a bed but after about 30 minutes decided to leave. He said something to the woman who made the reservation but nothing to us. He didn’t even ask for his money back. I don’t know what the problem was.

Anyway, I have practically met myself coming and going today. I told Mar that “en la noche, bebo much vino,” but I actually didn’t drink much more than usual. But “usual” here is about two glasses a night. All the longevity quizzes I have taken said I would live longer if I drank more. At the rate I’m going, I’ll live till I’m 100.